I’ve never dreamed of getting married – it’s just not for me.
But I have often interviewed brides for publications, and let me tell you, they are intense.
Even after the wedding has taken place, they’re keen on evaluating and measuring the success of everything they’ve done – from the table favours to the first dance, the vows to the last.
It’s always been a bit of a crazy world to me, someone who would be much happier spending all that hard-earned cash on a holiday somewhere incredible – finally seeing Petra, or visiting Red Square to see the bright colours of Saint Basil’s in person.
But when I spoke to Karen Paullada from Stella, the bride thing started to make sense.
As an actress in one of the UK’s most loved sitcoms, I expected her to be starry or perhaps have an attitude.
That was wrong for a start – she was funny, kind and very charming.
But also, she was so laid back about her wedding that she made me see it in a whole different light.
“I didn’t understand why everyone was getting so stressed over it all, I thought it was really easy,” she told me.
With the pictures showing that the final event was stylish, modern, and packed with friends and family including Stella writer and comedy queen Ruth Jones, it seems like maybe the low stress approach is the way to go.
In fact, if it’s that much of a breeze, perhaps it’ll catch on.
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